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These columns were originally published in the Kings County Record between 1984 and 2016.
The illustrations are by Alice, most of the photographs are by Lee

Wonderful, Unadvertised Event

23/12/2017

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©  R. L. Whitney.  Originally Published in the King's County Record, December 23, 1985. 

And so at last the huckstering and silliness is almost over, for this year. 

The great hootchie-kootchie dance of mass merchandising has bopped and bumped and ground its way to its terminal twitches.  The last cash register will soon ring up its last sale.  Silent too will be the super sweet recordings that tell us to listen because the herald angels have something important to say - only to be interrupted with the more relevant news of a five-minute sale in ladies lingerie.
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"Silent night" ~ winter sunset over the barn. © R. L. Whitney
Even after some two thousand years, the event of a dark night in a stable in a hick town in a backwater of the greatest empire of all time - that tremendously unadvertised, under-merchandised, totally insignificant birth - has the ability to cause a hush to fall across a world in which one must shout if one hopes to be heard at all.

I used to wonder why it was that something which was to be so important should start out in a small town which was by all accounts not much more than the equivalent of a restaurant and a couple of gas stations.  There was no Chamber of Commerce.  No-one from Triple-A or the Michelin Guide had ever been there.  No bright lights.  Local traveling theatre troupes passed it by.  It was, in short, "the sticks."
 
In the course of more than half a century of wandering I have seen Christmas come and go in the city and on the outskirts of the city.  I have seen it in fairly small towns and right out in the country.  There were no clear winners or losers among those various places, although there were places I liked better than others.  I can't even say that the people were different.  There are good people and not-so-good people, and some stinkers, everywhere.  You find what you are looking for, in a way.  If you think people in the city are unfriendly you will probably find them that way.  If you think people in the country are set in their ways, well, you will probably wind up remembering the things that prove you right.

The first Christmas that I remember with certainty was before I started school, when the family was living out in the country, in a "house by the side of the road."  I don't know about being "a friend to man," but I do remember my mother feeding the occasional tramp in those Depression days, and I remember my father showing me once the marks on a telephone pole down the road a piece - marks that meant, in tramp code, the next house was one where a hand-out might be hoped for.  The dirty, ragged men were scary to me then, and I used to keep out of their way.

Mother and father are both dead now, and, not having brother or sister, I have no one to ask about those days.  My father's work kept him away from home, often for weeks at a time.  There was no one there but my mother and myself.  There probably weren't a lot of tramps - we weren't running a soup kitchen or anything like it - only giving a bit of food to the hungry.  But the fact that I remember them at all suggests to me that there were more than one or two.  I would like to ask mother what her feelings were.  Certainly she never gave me any sense of being nervous or apprehensive about the strangers at the gate.

When I started school we moved from that house into town, and from there, in a couple of years, to another town, and then, a year or so later, to a suburb of a big city.  Most of my Christmases from then until a few years ago were spent in an urban environment.

The Depression - and the tramps - vanished in the darkness of Pearl Harbour and the Second World War, and with the end of the war came a new world and new ways.  Neither Depression or tramps were to return, it seemed, and there seemed to be no problem, no hunger, that couldn't be conquered by the application of science and technology.

Time passes, as the song says.  Many Christmases have come and gone.  Problems that seemed to be gone for good, don't seem that easy to eliminate now, the world looks very like a replay of the later Roman Empire as it was two thousand years ago when Bethlehem was "the sticks."

In my own wanderings it has come to me that there was good reason why a little place like Bethlehem was picked for the Big Event.  I think of the tramps that used to come to our kitchen door out there in the country and I think of the tattered and tired couple that was sent off to sleep in the stable.  I'll bet they didn't look like the bright and shiny pair that are appear on the Christmas cards.  I'll bet they might have looked just a little bit scary to a youngster who watched them go by, sheltered by the safety of his own comfortable home.

But they weren't headed for the bright lights; they weren't doing one-night stands in the better hotels.  They were there because most people aren't born on Broadway - however important and indispensable Broadway may think itself to be. 

In the hush that falls on Christmas Eve I think it is still possible to hear the cry of the child who was born for all men, however poor, however weak, however unimportant - "poor ornery people like you - and like I." 

Merry Christmas!

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    We moved to our farm in Sussex, New Brunswick from Toronto in 1977, only moving away in 2014. 

    For over 30 years of our life there, I wrote a weekly column for the Kings County Record in Sussex chronicling the little events that are the heart of ‘daily life’ in a small place in the country.  These blog posts are drawn from those columns.

    The weekly column became, over the years, a series of bench-marks or surveyor’s stakes to record the contours of the place we lived, its dreaming hills and fertile valleys, icy chasms and swift-flowing streams. 

    While I no longer live on the farm, we continue to share the columns from time to time on this blog.  And very soon you will be able to read my book!  To be published in December 2019.  

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    Images on the blog are drawn from my own photography,  and my wife Alice's artwork.  We occasionally resort to other people's images when nothing we have on hand suits the content of the post.  

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